"We are each so much more than what some reduce to measuring."
Karen Kaiser Clark
Marlo Morgan wrote a fascinating book called, "Mutant Message Downunder." It's about a walkabout that she went on with a group of Australian Aboriginees. After the book was published, some controversy arose regarding the book's authenticity, but I met Marlo in my girlfriend's apartment in Vancouver long before she was published, and I believed her story.
There were many beautiful things that she learned from the Aboriginal people, one of which had to do with labels. Instead of calling someone in their tribe a doctor or painter or dancer, they held the title, 'interested in medicine' or 'interested in art.' And they could change their title at any time! Someone could be 'interested in medicine,' for years, then decide to become 'interested in dance.' Doesn't that seem liberating?
This concept really resonates with me now that I hold the title of, "Stay-at-home-Mom." I dislike this label. It implies that all I do is stay at home mothering. It doesn't define me. I find, at parties, it's a bit of a conversation-stopper. People don't know where to go with it.
Instead of asking the mundane question, "So what do you do?" I've started asking people what they're passionate about, or what they're interested in. So far, people have rolled with it and I've enjoyed some great conversation.
Don't get me wrong, I am very proud to be raising my two daughters full-time, but today I think I'll be 'interested-in-writing.'
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